Thursday, July 28, 2005

Maybe It's Just Me





That's an ass. Just gorgeous.

Talking to boys online and offline it's inevitable that the dreaded question " Are you a top or bottom?" will come up within seconds. I hate this question. The reason is because it basically refers to anal sex. I really don't like anal sex. I know I know shut up. Well I really don't believe its all its cracked up to be. The few times I've done it, it was at the most just aiight. Porno positions but not porno excitement. Atleast not for me. Well ok there was that one time. For the majority though, my experiences have just been uncomfortable and consisted of me waiting for dude to finish. Sounds sad right? Maybe I've just been with wack dudes. Ok I will make a confession...I ended my three-year anal sex hiatus about a month before I moved to Atlanta. With who? Take a guess nosy asses. Anyways, it was kinda ok at first but then I was so over it. Just discomforting pain. Is it me? Does anyone else feel the same? Should I just start banging out backs myself? I'm a Scorpio, aren't we the rulers of sex? Aside from anal sex I'm a trooper...Ahem Ahem. So I'm asking you all out there in the blogosphere your own take on this. Alot of people seem to be stuck on anal sex in this community. There is so much more to me. I will do everything else ( Especially kiss ) all day long. Anal Sex...Bah Hum Fuck.


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Today's Track: " Tru Love" Faith Evans

14 comments:

  1. First of all, why does your blog look like this?

    Okay...I've never been penetrated simply becuase I want the person that enters inside of me to be my boyfriend, not some random hookup.

    I've fucked guys before...and it's like yawn already...but there have been a couple of times that I've been like....yeah okay....I can do this, but it's really not that it's cracked up to be.

    But when I get married or give my ass up, I will let you know how it felt. I will probably write a blog about it

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  2. I know this question was posed to guys,but I personally have not tried anal,and I am scared to even think about some big dicked man bangin me out.Like you said..porno yes real life no.
    p.s. your ass might not be fucking but it better be writing!lol

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  3. Wonderful comment. I have a shared sentiment.

    Besides the fact that I am encouraging myself to leave the sex thing alone, I have come to realize that if I am being sized up for one reason or another then I am not being looked at as a complete person, and that I am a recreational meal waiting to be devoured.

    I am looking for a joining of spirit and mind. The sharing of flesh is a small part of my package. If you can stimulate my mind and spirit you have won my friend. I have found that, but not in people that openly share that sentiment.

    I may die alone, but I would have atleast experianced the love that I desire one time before.

    Complete and untainted.


    Remember,

    "The future is more promising once you acknowledge that it, to you, is not promised."

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  4. BooBooRed10:20 AM

    can't keep no secrets...

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  5. It "sounds" as if not feeling the anal sex is a bad thing. Like what you like and keep it moving.

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  6. I guess if you're a bottom, there is a good reason. Hell, I still dread having a prostate check once a year. That's why a choose a doctor by her finger size (well that's one reason, the other being I am less likely to have a physical reaction to a female doctor handling the jewels). Anyway, nothing beats a good juicy pair of lips with plenty of suction. Damn, is it hot in here or is it this post????? lololol

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  7. 1- What a beautiful booty ( that picture )
    2- Anal sex is a very intimate act so maybe u just havent found the person u can really be intimate with, u said u were just layin there waitin for ur partner to finish, damn that's terrible, maybe u weren't really into them
    3- People r stuck on anal sex because its a very " particular " experience. The sight of a phat butt/nice penis, warmth of a tight ass, the feelin u get when u get a prostate massage, the kissin, bein close and skin to skin, etc... it can be excellent but if u're the one getting penetrated and gettin ur prostate massaged does nothin at all to u, and if the sight of a nice booty doesnt make u wanna use ur babymaker at all then maybe anal sex is just not for u, and that's cool because every one of us has their own preferences, and its all psychological... dont get involved in somethin u dont wanna do just because everybody else does it
    If u can get ur satisfaction from any kinda other thin u're doin, that's cool, u have no reason to worry

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  8. Co-sign on ass - GORGEOUS!

    Yo know what I chat on internet sites and I rarely get asked if I am a top or bottom. Not that it is posted on my profile but our conversations don't go toward sex. If they do on the first interaction I cut them loose. I guess I am a tease that way. Internet chat sites are truly entertainment for me. Helps to pass the time. Most people I met we just become friends or cool. I haven't hooked up with someone from an internet site in years. A few months ago I established a really good friend. And I do mean friend, no sex involved, just good times hanging out. Like last night, he met up with me and a few bloggers at a poetry spot. They were drooling over him. Good fun.

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  9. note: though he was very much in attendance at said event, larry did no drooling whatsoever.

    about the post:
    in the formative years of my gayness, i didn't enjoy anal sex; neither as a top nor as a bottom. in retrospect, i can see that i had some growing up to do - which is not to say, mind you, that i equate the enjoyment of anal sex with maturity. perish the thought.
    what i am saying is that i didn't enjoy sex because i had yet to form a concept of its rightful place within my relationships. at that time, i felt that i was offering my body as a sacrifice of sorts. a reward and and incentive to keep my man satisfied. something to satiate his hunger. what i enjoyed most was when we'd collapse onto each other afterwards in a sweaty, breathless heap. only then did i feel connected to the man. every moment prior to that, i could have been filing my taxes and playing tetris, 'cause i was totally unengaged.
    all that to say all that has already been said.
    -it aint for errbody.
    -it's best with someone special.
    -it's best when you know you and you love you.

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  10. I don't know yet. For some reason anal does not sound appealing unless I would B the giver.I imagine it would B painful and smell bad, but mayB Ill find out.

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  11. I thought the Handjobber game was a joke at first. Went to the website and let's just say my score did nothing for my ego LOLOLOL. Shem hotep!

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  12. Yeah, that azz on PHIRE!!! Damn...i know yall tired of me talking about being backed up, but oh well. That pic got my boy moving.
    You like what you like and whoever you are with, is going to have to respect that whether or not they agree with it. If they don't, there are plenty more men out there.
    I like azz, but only if they know what they doing. I have only had really good sex with a few people and have only made love with one person. That was some good junk in the trunk. I really depends on your repore with the person and how they work what they have. Maybe ur not comfortable with the people who u have tried anal with?

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  13. Not a big fan myself.

    Q

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  14. Wow!!! This post and that comments have certainly woken me up!!!

    Yes...a very nice ass! Wow for me since i'm usually the purveyor of nice "pipes" and because I have one of the most desired asses in the south! *wink*

    Now to the question at hand: Supermodel, you already know my take on this. I love it!! I'm very skilled in the act and although I have the patience to 'instruct' the person giving it to me, if that person just ain't working it, I'll put on the brakes, pull back on my clothes and either get out or send them out! The key is the comfort level between the two participants...trust me...its so much better when you actually feel something for your partner, other than heat between your legs.

    Other than that all the oral and foreplay is heat enough for me also...but I do have an affinity...enough about me though!

    Keep them comin!

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